Hello Chrissy *hug*.



Christina Schmelling wrote:

> Hows life been to the both of you lately?



Mine? Missed you, I should say. Otherwise spring is back and I've been

lurking in the woods abit again... murrr, they feel like home again and

there is a 'large' amount of wild animals to haunt. ;P It's quite going

back to normal in my life and to hear that Robbert is somewhat back and

you are ok is really making me happy... <me listens to "The age of love

-- Scooter">



> Robbie I will answer your email later tonight.



P.s., Robert: Try checking your hotmail mail.



> Anyhow, they asked a huge favor of me kind of caught me a little of

> guard and a little breathless and speechless.

> 

> They informed me that my friend cannot get pregnant and they want me

> to be a surrogate mother for their child. I do not know what to do I

> am pretty close to the both of them and they would make great

> parents.  I asked how the meant for this to happen and they want me to

> create a baby in the usual means actually sleeping with her husband. I

> just do not think I could moraly do this because 1-He is married and

> 2-I would feel I was going against the pack and my packmates are the

> most important thing in my life I would do anything and everything for

> the both of you. 3- I feel like that part of me the sexual part

> belongs to Jure my boyfriend (if I am not being too bold)?

> 

> Help me my packmates I just do not know what to do?



Chrissy, this is really your choice.



You should say yes if:

 - You feel you want to do this for your friends

 - You feel you can do this for your friends

 - You think it would be a good thing to do

 - You feel stable

 - You are ready



and



You should say no if:

 - You have a major moral judgement not to do this

 - You cannot afford to do this

 - Doing this will severely mess up some other things in your life

 - You feel you will have a too strong bond to the child

 - You feel this artificial relationship might ruin something else you

hold within





The reason why you have to make this decision on your own is because not

only the rightfullness, but also the sake of the child depends on how

you feel within and going into this is 100% sure to mess with your mind

and blur up a lot of things that maybe seem obvious ATM.



Perhaps if you really want to do this for them but feel some resistance

within and if you feel you can trust them, perhaps you could go talk to

them and try to tell them first hand what you feel is wrong about it.

That will surely make your decision easier.



And remember: I'm always here for you, there is not a reason in this

world that can take me away from you.



> Love ya both hugs and kissess,



I Love you too. Take care. ;]



-- 

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			Observer aka DustWolf aka CyberLegend aka Jure Sah



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