Hello Jolien,



Hm, no you have not offended me. Interesting you find heavy topics

interesting. Most people do not.



I have tried again giving it a go with (relatively) normal people around

me. I have tried socializing with them the ways the like to socialise

(because in the end going to the bar is not so terrible after all) and

nod wisely to their senseless ramblings of everyday while adopting their

interesting method of slipping a drink very slowly. ;]



I was thinking about what some adults like to say, that animals can't

think. Most of my schoolfriends dissagree with that and see no reason to

be thinking that way. I tend to think it's an ignorance thing and if I

know what others think or not, they quite agree with me.



I have found some people, but probably not the ones I live around, have

very diffirent moral values. Having to live with these diffirences is

hard because most people will simply not care not to do something that

is immoral to someone else, simply because and then in the same breath

expect you to respect their moral values.



I have also found girls make great friends. ;] I have been trying to

figure out how your mind works and if I go by what I have learned about

people in general, I would say you are what you appear to be when we're

friends and don't hide all that much. I might be wrong tho. ;] And

excuse me while I compare what I know of your mind with what I know of

the minds of animals, I respect you lots, I just don't have very many

diffirent observations to compare to.



You see, I have found my mind tends to try and fit new minds I meet to

the minds I already know. For example, when I started up talking to you,

it has poped to my mind several times that you could actualy be someone

else I already know and just pretending you are not. Since such kind of

thinking is categorized under shizophrenia and thus not considered

normal, I have been working on changing my current POV of the world.



This is interesting, I have learned that I can pretend to be thinking in

a specific way for a while and after some time, my mind will adopt that

POV of the world. I have learned to consider multiple views of the world

at once and then react by the one that I consider best for the

situation. When encountering a real problem, the distance between me and

my goals becomes obvious, which is when I have material to work with and

decide what else is wrong with me. Sometimes I wish I could go back and

be living and happy all alone again in my old view of the world, but

it's too late now; nobody can understand a thing I say the moment I stop

progressing.



Oh, you might have noticed I'm draging a monologue over multiple topics,

but to tell the truth I've prooved my point in every one of the topics

I've mentioned. This is how my schoolfriends talk when we socialize at

the bar. Everybody tells his point and we're all happy. All topics

interconnect, if one doesn't such a connection is made for the sake of

the discussion. It's an easy way to learn things about friends and life

and because the topics interconnect, you're usualy interested in every

one of them.



Would you call it success?



BTW, interesting thing I've noticed when you were describing Robin. I'm

interested if you have tried maybe (perhaps without knowing it) telling

him when something is right or wrong trough amplified 'emotions'? Excuse

me while I compare his mind to the minds of animals again, the reason

remains the same: I don't have much simmilar experience elsewhere, but

well it turned out very practical for me to teach appropriate behaviours

to some animals by making it more than obvious what I really think about

it (for example, by showing reflexive fear to a dog that likes barking

too loud to get attention). 



I understand it might be hard to understand something "obvious" to

someone who has not been learning it for 18 years like myself, but I

have a feeling it is accomplishable. I think it would be most important

to not say just one type of answer to everything he tries doing, that is

and remains to be very confusing all one's life. Out of my recent

experience I have learned that it takes effort from both the aspie and

his environment to make communication work.



Take care. Byby. ;]



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