Jolien Westerbroek wrote:

> HAI!



Hello.



I know you're a little short on time, so real kind of you to have

replied anyway. It brings togather the right feeling even if it's as

short as this... making me happy, you know.



> > I used to like barbeque too, but it happens too often that you have to

> > prepare too much food at once, so that kind of draws me away from the

> > barbeque occasions (I get that headache thing if I try to force myself

> > to eat over the limit).

> 

> Why would you do that?



Well people around here give you odd looks if I don't eat everything

that gets placed in front of me.



> It sounds weird, but special.



It's pig sushi, basicaly. =P



> I still need an introduction: Why would I write to him? I've been thinking

> about that. Maybe I will ask him things about you. Like: How is it for you

> to have a son with Asperger and than compare it to me and Robin. Is that a

> good idea?



Hmm, I was thinking about something very near the truth: That you know

what I have and want to tell him about it, so he can better understand

you (which, I gather, was the thing you wanted for Robin when you

contacted me).



> That would be nice as an effect.

> Can you tell me what else you want to tell your dad about yourself or

> situations that need to be changed. (For example, practical things like:

> don't krank up the radio, that hurts my ears. Or: please don't tell me this

> or that, because... Or; don't laugh at me when I'm doing this or that,

> etc... give it some thought, we might as well bring it all across, since I'm

> going to write him anyway.



I've found a lot of things that would be good to mention around in

online literature. I'll go trough my been-reading archives again and dig

up and quote the things I think are supposed to be mentioned. You can

then explain it in your own way.



> That sucks. I've had a deprssion once. It is not something you want for

> anybody; not even your enemies.



Indeed.



> HA ha. Did they ever tell you to NOT slashhammer the neighbourhood? :]



Uhm, I don't do it that often you know... ;]



> > It seems you have no reason to ever think you could be bothering me with

> > your suggestions and yet you're asking if you are all the time.

> 

> you're right, i'll try and stop doing that.



	=P



> > Of

> > course, it's a GREAT IDEA, I got it before while chatting with Robert.

> > =P However it would take a little work.

> 

> Oh, Yes, a lot of work. Just keep on going, we'll figure out how to do this.

>

> That is a very good idea. Cool that you saved all the stuff. I think, when

> you want the 'normies' to buy the book, you should focus on the differences

> between 'normies' and 'aspies' in going through those messages.  So in that

> way both can help each other.

> Or maybe you just want to make someting for 'Aspies'. In any case, it would

> be nice to have some wolf-stuff in it. Because it is so important to you.



My ordinary style of writing includes little quoted text and lots of

situation describtions (because I'm not good at guessing how others

would behave in a specific situation), but then again I've had quite a

little experience with new styles. For example I have here a long

dialogue song I wrote with Robert (the situation was that I wrote a

short song and he, feeling just as poetic, replied by continuing the

song, I got the point immediately and now the song spans a cupple pages;

it's about werewolves BTW... Want a copy?).



I would want to include as much text about me as possible in this one

(includes wolf stuff) and still not make it look odd to 'normies'. The

situation would be avoided by presenting myself as somebody diffirent.

It would include notices of my autistic condition, tho. It would be

interesting to know how can we intigrate a discussion into a book,

keeping the reader's focus and interest on the content. I'll give it a

try and see what I come up with.



> > Most of the times, I didn't get the chance to be with

> > her and she was raised by my half-sister, who was going trough a growing

> > up stage in which she took drugs and everything, making my kitty's

> > behaviour still quite unpredictable (she has only memories of contact

> > with humans, yet some memories are very nice and some very very bad).

> > She still loves to see me visit, atho she doesn't quite forgive me for

> > checking on her so sparsely.

> 

> Does it sit with its back to you first, before it comes to great you? My cat

> used to do that when he was angry with me, because I went away for the

> weekend or something.



Yes, that's it. I haven't noticed that tho, I just found that it was

behaving oddly.



> That is cool! I'm sure those little kitties have that superpleasant day in

> their system still.

> Just like you. It is good to hear about those enjoyable things. To me it

> seems you enjoy the real important little things in life, like polishing up

> kitty's fur.



Yeah, that's me. It's impossible to avoid enjoying good things when

you're not cheating on yourself. =P



> > (And because I never forget an oppurtunity to make somebody happier, I

> > will just say) And you don't need to dream, you've got David! =P

> 

> mmm. Yes. But I would like to have that dream anyway! Dreams can be better

> than real life, you know. In real life you stumble across all these

> practical things that take the attention away from what's really going on on

> the sensitive level.



LOL. What nice excuses. =P



Really, it's good to know what really bothers women... Even male

'normies' don't get a chance to ever learn about that. But it helps you

if we know. You know, like when we got to learn that you like

compliments. It's always good to know what makes you happy.



Anyway, I don't know the practical stuff yet, but in general: When life

is good, life is like a dream and there is no distinction to be made.

And life is more or less the way you take it, so if you choose to take

it as dream-like that's how it's going to be.



> You should start a guys-get-together-event. Only for guys with either 'rob'

> in their name or a rob behind their tale. :D

                   ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^



My dictionary refuses to help me there.



> > Robert has also since mentioned he wants you to have his e-mail address.

> > Well you know, since he's just like me, he could, use your contact as

> > well. =P Here: <roberto.blanco@able.es>!

> 

> He is Spanish?



Yes.



> Is he an aspie too?



Obviously, because he is just like me. We share all titles.



> I would love to start a conversation with him, 



He would like that too, yes. =P



> but than I'm afraid I don't have time to do my regular job any more. I

> need the time (= money) for my family here. Now that would be something to

> be solved by the ICI system. Soem computer does my work, while I'm having

> nice conversations with you guys :)



See the attached picture. "X89ee" is one of my favourite drawings by my

computer. Since I'm not too good with graphical art myself, I kindly

asked the computer to bridge that problem for me, here's what he did.

There are a cupple hundred other pictures, each uniqe (but made by the

same rules), this one is my top pick out of a dozen.



Your work is art isn't it? What do you think of this? =P



> By the way. There have been some very good, but also scary movies made with

> this theme. I can't cough up any names. I think in 'Time machine' the latest

> version there was something like that weaved in. This virtual guy (3-d

> holographic image that answered questions like a human being) was the facade

> of a computer-network that had every book in the world in its systems. You

> could ask the guy anything.



This 3-d guy sounds just like me! =P I too in fact have access to a

computer-network and my signature file says you can ask me anything. ;]

I promise an answer to any question, but cannot say if you will find the

answer acceptable. =]



> Our dog is sandy-coloured. She's mostly Dingo -wild dog, with a black tip on

> her tale.



..."tail" maybe?



> > I was hoping I could dig up the link, but it seems to be lost. I attach

> > one of his drawings that I thought was pretty cool and VERY accurate. ;]

> 

> That is the sweetest drawing! I'll print it out and hang it up.



The wolf-boy is a perfect describtion of me. The only diffirence being

that I don't yet have a snout or a tail and that I wear a green shirt

instead. =P



> > I could run like the wind just to be with you.

> 

> And rub noses in the sweetest dream.



LOL. Thanx, that was very sweet of you. ;]



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